Thursday, July 23, 2015

20150723 (traveling with mom)
















My son Nathaniel his wife Krista

Celebrated their tenth anniversary

With a trip to Turkey and Greece

Their choices unnerved me each 

Country in the midst of some tumult

Thankfully they’re long past listening 

To geezers who fret over every little thing

Young enough to enjoy the freedom

Of invulnerability and to be truthful

When I was young had more money than brains

I traveled too not so daringly

Paris London Madrid a capitals tour

Not a capital idea only for the naive

First-time to Europe American another 

In a long line of parochial bumpkins

Stunned to see that people existed in

Other parts of the world with customs

Languages cultures all their own

Not that we hadn’t read or seen movies

Known all these facts in our heads

Standing among them was the clincher

My mom as a youngster didn’t travel 

So far as to go out of the county

Thought people in California had pointed ears

Different in some remarkable way

She too had seen movies talkies even

She too knew in her head 

The true state of things

Niagara Falls for her honeymoon

Didn’t break her fantasy visiting

Her brother in Independence 

Seeing some friends in Ashtabula 

Marked the bounds of her young adulthood 

My dad in his twenty-fifth year of 

Working for the same company  

Took the family by car on his long awaited 

Long vacation through the great

Natural wonders of the American west

To visit his brother Tony a naval retiree

Japanese war prisoner then an aircraft

Worker in San Diego confirmed alcoholic

Married to an alcoholic with a teen 

Daughter who may have seen enough 

In her life to stay away from drink

For my mom the trip required her to sustain

Long periods of motion without movement

She clung white knuckled to the door’s

Arm rest braced her left arm on the dash

She had never wanted to travel much less

Travel at seventy-five miles an hour down

Long straight highways with competition

From interstate trucking tension rising

As they grew from black dots on her 

Horizon to monstrous iron boxes as we 

Neared one could see how they swayed

As much as a foot from side to side

Hear the noise of their wheels 

Motors as we gunning it

Passed the behemoths at eighty 

She on the passenger side of our

Sixty-one Comet many times over

Imagined our car smashing into the truck 

When she calmed down enough

To look ahead alas another dot appeared

How she survived crossing many state lines

Much less the first was a mystery to me

What could she do get out walk back

Several times she spoke up let’s not take 

The scenic route I’ve had enough scenic

I just want to get this done and get home

She later confessed having difficulty 

On any toilet not her own to our surprise

She did not expire she made it back

Never once spoke warmly of the adventure 

Not of places nor people

Even now I feel so sorry for her

Locked in a cage I think

Of her own making

Fearful all through life 

I suffer a bit of the same 

Being bone of her bone 

But hopefully I didn’t 

Pass it on





c. J.S.Manista, 2015

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